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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Why I Don't Allow Debate or Criticism

The following post contains the reason why I do not allow debate or criticism or any "such like" on my blog. I do this for others to know, understand, and hopefully see the danger in participation in such things as a "hobby" or excessive past time. All is said in love and humility, backed up by the Word of the Almighty God.

I decided it would helpful to define 2 words listed on my sidebar and also in my comments section:

Debate and Criticism

Debate: a contention by words or arguments; fight, contend; argue; opposition

Criticism: the act of criticizing; a critical observation or remark; to find fault or point out the faults of

I do not allow either on my blog. I can not for the life of me understand why someone would read a blog they don't agree with as a whole. That is like me reading an Atheist's blog, expecting never to get upset. Why would I want to go on an Atheist's blog and stir up trouble? (That would be so rude of me to go to someone else's blog to tell them my 2 cents) It's THEIR blog, they can say what they want. Same for mine! I use the Bible, scripture and principles from the Word of the Almighty God and it speaks for itself.

Also let's use some scripture on this account as well. For what it causes on BOTH sides in the commentor and me, is a contributing factor that determines my rules. Not only that but most importantly, I developed this from Biblical scripture and principles set to guide our life. Let's look earnestly at the Word of God.

In its context, debate here is defined as contention, strife and wrangling. It is preceded by murder and followed by deceit. What is the intent of someone who sets about to debate in this manner? Is it to "murder" the other person in their mind through hate and/or use deceit by means of debate? Some food for thought.

Romans 1:29-32

"Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."

It doesn't just stop with this verse, let's continue on. In 1 Timothy 6:3-4, Paul goes on to say that those who teach otherwise:

1 Timothy 6:4

"He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings,"

The Bible plainly tells us what comes from "doting" about questions and strifes of words - it brings envy, strife, railings and evil surmisings! Let's define some of these words:

Doting: (in its context) someone that loves to argue

This is what comes from "doting" or for better use of words, what is made from or arises from arguing over questions:

Envy: painful or resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by another joined with a desire to possess the same advantage; malice

Strife: conflict, discord, fight; debate/argument; contention, wrangling = to engage in argument; bicker; dispute; controversery

Railings: slander, detraction, speech injurious to another's good name

Evil Surmisings: evil/bad imaginations; to imagine evil

WOW! All those things stem from what? The doting about questions and strifes of words! Is it any wonder, WHY I don't allow such things to happen on this blog?

I'm not done yet lol. God has given me many things tonight to post about this and it is to help others and show them how DANGEROUS it is and why I don't want this going on here. Let's look at more scripture:

Titus 3:9-11

"But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain.
A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject;
Knowing that he that is such is subverted, and sinneth, being condemned of himself."

That is one of the most forewarning scriptures that you can get about this subject in my opinion! Not only should we avoid those things but he goes on to tell us they are UNPROFITABLE and VAIN! But it ain't over yet........the last verse (v.11) is where it gets dangerous! Self condemnation by your own words! Your words will be used against you one day. This isn't the only verse in the Bible that teaches us this truth:

Matthew 12:36-37

"But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned."

Our words are not just floating feathers in the wind, never to be brought up again. They are being recorded and we will have to give account for them one day. Please see the study I did last year on "Our Words" here:

A Pastor/preacher is given full command from God according to His Word to reprove and rebuke and correct his flock, give admonition to others and correction of others if some of his "flock" are in danger by the dissenter. This isn't a blog invite to debate! I am a blog writer, I don't have a flock and I sure do not claim to be some "mentor" to blogland women! For the sake of others, I've deleted some of the comments that were contentious. I'm sure you can find a group of like-minded, disgruntled, arguing and striving over questions folks.......but this ain't the place to do it! I've used the Word of God to show the DANGERS of such things in hopes to help someone understand, for not only themselves, but for them to understand my reasons and my rules and where I got these principles; God's Word; The Bible.

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Proverbs 31 Woman a "Career Gal"?

I was reading through Voddie Baucham's blog and came upon one of his post with the title listed above. I found it very insightful and truthful. I also am not against women working when they have to in such cases as he listed:

"....women who find themselves abandoned by sinful, self centered, immature, and/or irresponsible men (both the father of their children and their own fathers), and thus literally have no choice but to work and provide for their children. Nor do I fault women whose husbands have been disabled for one reason or another for having to become breadwinners."

He goes on to contest the thought of the "Career" woman and how our culture today wants to paint the Proverbs 31 Woman as such. You can read the full post here:

"The ‘career woman’ argument is an absolute stretch. Especially when we recognize the irrefutable hermeneutical principal that Scripture interprets Scripture. Thus, we cannot use Proverbs 31 to negate Titus 2. Whatever the Proverbs 31 woman teaches us, she cannot teach that which would contradict the direct command for women to be “keepers (or workers) at home.” (Tutus 2:5, 1 Timothy 5:14)"

*Also, I never stated I was not voting Republican. I would never vote Democrat because of what they support: Abortion, Homosexuality, More Government Control, etc. In Politics, you have to choose the "lesser" evil and that leaves McCain. I do not support his pick of a woman for the VP slot. Also, his health is in not so good condition, he is older and I would not like the idea of having a woman ruling our Nation, if McCain was to pass away during office. She also has several children and they need her but she has chosen other things as more important than her God-given role. She has a daughter under her roof who is pregnant out of wedlock. She has a child born not too long ago with Down Syndrome, who will need extra care, time and attention but Mommy will be doing more important things than take care of her son. She seems like a nice lady and I think she can speak very well, but that doesn't make her right, Biblically speaking. However Politics is matter who wins, God is STILL in CONTROL! I will not worry, fear or fret over who gets the office because I'm in God's hands and he will never forsake me and my family or any of His children!

2 Timothy 1:7

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind."

See post on 'I Just Want My Mommy!'

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Fall Cleaning

Anyone doing any fall cleaning? I'm behind because of my trip but started this week and got the family room done but didn't get to the dreaded storage closet yet EEK! Here is what I did for my fall cleaning for the family room:
  • Cleaned all surfaces from top to bottom
  • Vaccumed room, behind furniture
  • Vaccumed sofa and then also the bed inside it
  • Organized papers, filed papers, shredded papers (I hate papers! LOL)

Here is a a Fall Cleaning Chore Checklist:

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Sunday, September 28, 2008

Biblical Roles vs. "Society or The Norm"

I found this video clip on Simply Susan's blog while catching up on my blog reading and just had to share! Voddie Baucham is someone I have listened to a lot and I agree with a lot that he says in most things, especially the roles of a Man and a Woman according to the Bible (God's Word).

In the video clip, after the first 2 or 3 stories, you will hear him talk with another lady back and forth on the issue of Sarah Palin and a Woman's role. I think he said it very well and I agree with him! (The story starts at about 1 minute into the clip)

Also see post on "Proverbs 31 Woman a Career Gal ?"

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Friday, September 26, 2008

First Month with Cash Crate

After watching so many get paid large amounts with Cash Crate, I decided to try it out.  You have to earn at least $10 to get a check, so that was my plan.  I earned $10.53 in a few days and then waited for the month to end and my check to be sent.  I got my check today!  It sure does feel good to know that by filling out a few forms and signing up for a few free newsletters....I earned some money!  I plan on trying to make at least $10 every month and enjoying this little extra!  You can earn more, many regularly get anywhere from $50-100 a month but I just do the free offers.

I covered up my personal information for privacy.  If you want to try out Cash Crate, click on my link below so they will know I referred you!  

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Monday, September 22, 2008

Frugal Addict Updated

For those of you who just want to follow my financial/frugal posts, be aware you can read my other blog: The Frugal Addict.  I just updated it and have a few more plans for it in the future.

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Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Message from a Veteran

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Look What I Came Home To:

Walked in the door to find the above in our kitchen! It was so sweet....I had tears in my eyes and the card was extra special too! My daughter went in her room and found on her table a swan vase with a rose in it and also a card with sweet words. I love my husband!!

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Home Sweet Home!

I'm finally home!!  I spent almost 3 weeks back home in TN and I was so ready to get back home, it seemed like it was a month that I was away!

Hope you all are well.  I have so many posts and also pictures and stories to tell, but today and the next few days is busy with unpacking my suitcases, grocery shopping (have to plan that also!), cleaning up the house, washing clothes and getting out of "vacation" mode lol.  ; )  I hope to have a few spare moments to post something.

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