First, we must start with a rejection of the contraceptive mentality that sees pregnancy and children as impositions to be avoided rather than as gifts to be received, loved, and nurtured. This contraceptive mentality is an insidious attack upon God’s glory in creation, and the Creator’s gift of procreation to the married couple.
To demand sexual pleasure without openness to children is to violate a sacred trust.
In reality, the Pill allowed a near-total abandonment of Christian sexual morality in the larger culture. Once the sex act was severed from the likelihood of childbearing, the traditional structure of sexual morality collapsed.
Christian couples are not ordered by Scripture to maximize the largest number of children that could be conceived.
Christians may make careful and discriminating use of proper technologies, but must never buy into the contraceptive mentality. We can never see children as problems to be avoided, but always as gifts to be welcomed and received.
I agree on the one part that we are not mandated to just keep popping out children with no care to our health, our husbands or financial means. However, using the pill or IUD or other devices that are capable of abortion, is murder, there are other safe non-abortificients that do not have a chance to kill a baby.
Too many Americans and especially Christians, are centered on child-avoidance and would rather have wealth, fame and their own selfish careers over one of the greatest gifts to man - children. I know some that have this mentality and they are generally self-centered women whose money, time and energy is spent on themselves, either in buying material goods or pursuing their every whim each day. That is a sad life to live and one that will cleave to them in remembrance when they are old and filled with regret. Then, I also know women who were like this and came to the realization of their error, but at a time too late in their life and they do live with sadness. Women who can't conceive are not exempted from this because there are millions of children in this country and many other countries that are waiting for that couple to love them and adopt them as their own.
What I want you to take from these thoughts are this - Where has this sex-centered, child-avoidance-filled society gotten America? Are we better because of the pill and the sexual revolution? Are we a better civilization because of the "freedom" to have sex without procreation? Are marriages better? Do they last when sex is all there is? What we do have is a society filled with sex-crazed, lust-filled men and women who, even when they have a family, don't have time for them. It has created a self-centered society, a civilization built on pleasure-only that is doomed to fall.
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