This is everywhere but it shouldn't be so amongst the born-again believers who have been changed but it is. Let's consider the Word of God in Hebrews:
Hebrews 10:24
And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:
We are clearly instructed here (and other scriptures) to consider others but there is a surface definition that prevails that we soothe ourselves with as if we have done our part. We think, "Well, I thought of them, that is enough." Is it enough?
Clarke's commentary:
Let us diligently and attentively consider each other’s trials, difficulties, and weaknesses; feel for each other, and excite each other to an increase of love to God and man; and, as the proof of it, to be fruitful in good works.
I usually love what Clarke has to say because he seems to say it so well! It is like pulling out the liquid in a honeysuckle - it is good! It is time for us to become attentive to other's trials, difficulties and weaknesses. But we live in a day and age where we stomp them down to the ground even more instead of lending a hand to get up. Are you considerate that your brother or sister is struggling with something? Are you considerate that they have personal feelings they struggle with that you are only provoking them to harm? Do your liberties destroy the brother next to you? Do you even care that they do?
Our world is full of justifiers. People will justify themselves but they won't consider another. I dare to voice publicly that THIS is our greatest problem. It isn't Satan that is entirely destroying us - it is ourselves and our lack of consideration for others that is destroying us from the inside out. Until we face the truth and ourselves - we will only be a tool to cause more people to stumble and fall.
Matthew Henry's Commentary:
Christians ought to have a tender consideration and concern for one another; they should affectionately consider what their several wants, weaknesses, and temptations are; and they should do this, not to reproach one another, to provoke one another not to anger, but to love and good works, calling upon themselves and one another to love God and Christ more, to love duty and holiness more, to love their brethren in Christ more, and to do all the good offices of Christian affection both to the bodies and the souls of each other. A good example given to others is the best and most effectual provocation to love and good works.
Tender. I think that could be the word of our time and our solution to all that is going on - being tenderhearted! You want love - show me by your tenderness and your consideration for my trials, difficulties and weaknesses. The world needs more tenderness and consideration.
Black lives and blue lives and all lives matter! Homosexuals are still people with souls. Have you considered their souls? Or is it more important to police the world and beat them into our ways than letting the love of God, the tenderness and consideration, tear down their walls? Prayer still works and staying sweet in your soul still works!
Consider others and think before you do things. I have to do it all the time when I blog - I try and consider other people before I hit send. Sometimes I hit send and then delete it later because I see that maybe I wasn't being considerate. However, there are times where you just stand for what is right - because that is being considerate of someone's soul - saving them from hell verses rocking them asleep to hell. But you have to decide what is what.
Paul was even willing to never eat meat again in consideration of a weaker brother! It clearly says it is a sin against Christ to wound a weak brother's conscience:
1 Corinthians 8:12-13
But when ye sin so against the brethren, and wound their weak conscience, ye sin against Christ. Wherefore, if meat make my brother to offend, I will eat no flesh while the world standeth, lest I make my brother to offend.
There are some people who eat only organic - would you laugh at them and make them eat non-organic at your house? Or would you rather consider them and their convictions and serve them something that wouldn't offend them?
The Bible teaches us clearly to consider one another in many ways. Think of this in everything you do - we must be so careful because we have to stand before God one day and give an account of our lives and actions.