Monday, December 31, 2012

A Look Back on 2012


This year didn't turn out how I had planned but yet it ended with the unexpected joy of a new baby!  All of my plans and resolutions for 2012 were pushed aside as I learned I was pregnant in March.  The pregnancy took most of the year until the week of Thanksgiving when Zach made his appearance earlier than expected.  It was a difficult pregnancy, a trying time, but one that yielded many fruits in my spiritual life.  It ended with a wonderful delivery via c-section that was one of the best experiences I've had of feeling that God was right there holding me through it all.  Then, Zach had some issues, which we hopefully have resolved most of after learning he has a milk allergy.  All in all, 2012 was a trying year but a year that brought one of the greatest blessings of all - another child!

Here are some posts from 2012:
What About Socialization?....And Other Mythical Questions
A Day in the Life....
Stop Trying to Do It Without God
When Birth Control is Needed
Keeping Up With the 'Christian' Joneses
Called to Be a Mother
Finding a Mentor
Living Debt Free - Our Continuing Story
What's a Stay-at-Home-Wife To Do All Day?
The Greater Benefit of No Rescue
What This Pregnancy Did For Me
My Awesome Birth Story

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Wednesday, December 19, 2012

What Cheap Meals are Made Up Of

One thing I've noticed over the years of living frugally and even super frugal, is that the cheap meals are usually based on the following foods:

Rice
Beans
Potatoes
Tuna
Eggs
Vegetables
Oats
Flour
Cornmeal
Pasta

Planning meals around these ingredients will ensure to keep costs down. Sure, you could live off of ramen, boxed mac/cheese and other processed 'cheap' foods but I don't think they fill you up as well as the above foods and they sure aren't as nutritionally sound. I've gone through a lot of recipes the past few days and it seems that a lot of cheap meals I'm finding include processed foods, canned creams of this and that and ready-made mixes. My goal has always been to use pure foods and make them as cheap as possible. I prefer making homemade cream of chicken/mushroom, etc. for meals than using those nasty cans that are full of who knows what lol. I also want to know what is in my food and those ready-made mixes have things that sure don't sound like food to me.

With the above cheap foods in my arsenal, I'm searching for meals that utilize these to get the ultimate cost-saving meals. I've already gathered a few up and also want to thank those that have submitted your favorite frugal recipes already! My brain is hurting from all the storming going on up there lol......this will probably be the hardest I've tried and thought through a meal plan and I'm not even close to being done yet. There isn't anything new under the sun, but it sure is hard to find that old stuff that has been buried by convenience meals, but I endeavor to uncover it and share it with you all!

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Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Milk Allergy for Newborn Zach

I thought you that are praying and following Zach's updates would like to know that we are pretty certain it IS a milk allergy.  About 10 hours after having regular feedings with the new hypoallergenic formula, his diarrhea stopped COMPLETELY and changed back to the normal color and texture.  Since then, he has had normal stools and is slightly less fussy.  He does eat more often now but that was expected because the new formula is easily digestible.  I do miss him going 3-4 hours between feedings, as he now goes 1-2 hours BUT I'm so glad he is not diarrheaing or vomiting anymore!!  The pediatrician said he will probably outgrow the milk allergy by 1 years of age and we will introduce whole milk then and see how it goes.

I pray this is the end of this crazy 'sickness' and it isn't something worse.  For a while there I wasn't sure I was going to make it through - I was mentally drained and depressed and couldn't eat much or sleep much for days.  There was a few times I wanted to get in the car and run away - but God helped me through it and hubby let me cry on him every night just about.  Since Zach stopped diarrheaing, I've been able to sleep and eat more.

I'm ready for some normalcy now.....Grant it Jesus because it's my season to be blessed!!

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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Update on Newborn Zach

Zach still has the vomiting, diarrhea and abdominal pain and we had to take him in again today because he started to also get mucous in his diarrhea that was looking like it could be blood as well.  The pediatrician thinks now that it may not be a virus since it has been 7 days and things are getting worse.  She said it could be a lot of things, one could be C-diff from all the antibiotics I was on for the last few months of my pregnancy, so they are testing his stool for that.

Another possibility she is checking out is to see if he may be allergic to milk.  I was unable to breastfeed with him at the hospital and gave up since the specialist thought I would be unable to produce enough milk even if I got them working because of my hormonal imbalance.  Zach has been on formula and he may be allergic now, so the pediatrician put him on a new formula that is hypoallergenic to see what happens.  I'm thinking of trying to re-lactate to give Zach at least some of my breast milk, even though I may not be able to produce enough.  We will see what happens soon.

So keep the prayers coming.......we will find out soon what is wrong with my baby!

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Sunday, December 9, 2012

My Awesome Birth Story

I was full of fear at the beginning of my pregnancy thinking about the end, mainly the c-section.  With my first c-section they were unable to numb my back and it turned into a nightmare as the anesthesiologist wouldn't stop trying even though the nurses were fighting with him to.  He poked me 7 times with various sized needles, with the last one hitting a nerve that shot down my left leg and left me with neuralgic pain in that spot for about 5 years!  After that, my daughter's heart rate drastically fell and it turned into an emergency situation and I remember being thrown down on the table and a catheter shoved in me and I almost came off that table from the pain from that and then I was knocked out.  Then, during the surgery I woke up and they had to put me back to sleep.  Also, they had sewn me up and I started hemorrhaging and they had to re-open me and stop the bleeding.  They still had problems upon the 2nd closing but finally got it to stop before I needed a blood transfusion.  I woke up feeling like I had to cough really bad and did and WHOA.......talk about pain!  They had maxed me out on morphine but I remember that pain being like no other at first waking.

So......you can see how I was apprehensive about this c-section!  I've had bowel issues for years and even after a colonoscopy there was no diagnosis but irritable bowel syndrome.  My surgeon suspected that I had massive scar tissue from my first c-section and she believed it was what was causing my bowel issues and said she would check things out when she had me open.  She was right, but more on that later.

I went into labor a week before my scheduled c-section and didn't know I was in labor.  I had contracted for 3 months constantly during pregnancy, so I didn't realize I was in real labor.  However, after 10 hours of regular contractions and them growing closer together and stronger, I thought maybe something was wrong.  We went to the ER and I expected to be sent home like always when they couldn't explain my contractions - but this time, they didn't.  I was dilating and effacing within an hour of them checking and then I started bleeding as well....this was real!  They told me it was amazing that my planned surgical team was actually there that day and they would be doing my c-section.  Everyone, even the scheduled anesthesiologist was there!  I knew this was God and felt peace about how it was all working out.  It was Zach's time to come out.

I met the anesthesiologist and let him know about my previous c-section and that anesthesiologist.  He had no doubts at all and was so confident that he said I will be numb after one try.  He told me he had been doing this for 20 years and everything was going to be ok.  He was right.....it happened so fast, I didn't even know it was over and was amazed I was really numb with just one poke!  I would have kissed the man if it would have been alright lol!  =0  He forever changed my opinion of anesthesiologists!

The rest of the surgery went amazingly well and the team was talking about various topics, which let me know that everything must be going good.  The only problem I had was the nausea but that was bearable.  I got to see them hold Zach up and he was so beautiful!  Then, I watched him across the room on the table as they checked him out, he was so calm and looking around and I was crying "my baby!"  At the end of the surgery, they asked how I was doing and I said "For some reason I'm really craving a cheeseburger."  They all laughed and the anesthesiologist said she's ok lol.

I got to hold him right away when I was taken to the recovery room and it was so special because I didn't feel pain for a long time afterwards and got to enjoy more of being with my baby!

Now, the surgeon was right, my scar tissue was bad and it had attached my uterus to my bladder and turned my uterus completely around - it was flipped.  All of this explains the severe pain I had from the beginning of the pregnancy till the end and it also explains my bowel issues over the past few years.  The scar tissue attached to the bladder, caused it to spasm, which in turn caused my bowel to spasm over the years.  Then in pregnancy, it caused my uterus to spasm (contract) and that is the pain I was feeling.  She completely removed my old scar and the tissue and took her time to stitch me up with minimal scar tissue.  She did such a good job, that it is almost completely invisible now at just 16 days postpartum!  My stomach is actually smaller now than before I got pregnant in my lower abdominal area, so all that pudge must have been the scar tissue.  Oh and I've lost 29 pounds in just 16 days folks!!! Here to think I was so concerned my weight gain all pregnancy and it literally fell off so quick lol.  I only have 6 pounds left to lose and I joke with hubby that it is in my ring finger since my wedding ring still doesn't fit haha.

All in all............the pregnancy was hard but the delivery was a miraculous victory!

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Saturday, December 8, 2012

Prayer for Newborn Zach

My newborn baby has been sick since he was 11 days old and still is going on the fifth day now with vomiting and diarrhea.  Please pray for his healing and for me as I'm worn down.  I told God I wouldn't stop praying until He touches Zach and I have others praying here and back home.  My daughter didn't get sick until she was 2 years old, so this is way new for me to have a baby sick right off the bat.  He is holding down some fluids though, enough that he isn't dehydrated.  They are keeping a close eye on him and the first moment of dehydration he goes into the hospital.  Thank you in advance for the prayers!!

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Saturday, December 1, 2012

Kind of Hard to Type.....

When I'm recovering like this.......


I haven't sat down to type up my birth story yet but intend to eventually.  Trying to enjoy these first few weeks that pass so quickly.

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