Our society began the degradation of men in the name of women's rights. Under the guise of liberating the woman and being "free" to have a career, they skillfully made men obsolete and only to be used to help the woman gain whatever it was she wanted. Now, we are left with a culture that came from these Godless women. A culture that hates children. A culture that thinks it is a WOMAN'S right to kill her baby and thus, a culture that says murder is a right - but only for women, because if the other half of the baby's DNA wanted to kill the baby, that would go against a woman's right. We currently have a woman of this mindset running to be President, she is on a mission to have that final stomping ground over her husband, she must conquer him at all costs and she will be, basically already is, the virago queen of feminists everywhere. However, she will never be satisfied, though she trample over man and reaches the top, because she was made to be what God intended and seeking after the opposite is a endless endeavor.
Is it is any wonder that we have a society full of fornication, adultery, pedophilia, gender-confusion, homosexuality and all other manner of perversions? No, it was and still is something that originated from a woman. Men have become the laughingstock of the entertainment of our society. They are constantly ridiculed, made a spectacle of and demeaned to be lower then women. Are men ok with this? They seem to be because I don't see a men's rights movement coming in the future. They are deadly silenced by the mighty woman.
What will it take to bring the respect back to men? It will take women returning to ladies for men to return to gentlemen. The power is still in the hand of the woman because men have proven to be weak by allowing women to rise to where they are now. I'm not saying women should be beneath men - although these women seem to think it is ok for men to be there - but I'm saying they should be who God made them to be; man's help meet.
I have to be careful that in my own marriage and dealings with other men that I don't allow the degradation-mentality to infiltrate my thoughts and words. It is difficult to grow up in a society that drills it into you in every aspect of your life from public schooling to music and movies. I've had to eradicate a lot of junk that was fed into me that I didn't even realize the spirit behind it as a growing child and then a woman. Putting God's Word into our minds and constantly renewing our minds through it is a big factor in this purging process. However, not allowing certain messages through media to enter our thoughts is also important. We are truly in the world but we are not to be of it.
The silent women that do follow God's Word and are the Biblical model of a woman, wife and mother need to arise and make their presence known if we are ever going to win back the minds of women. So many older women are realizing they bought into the lie. As they sit lonely, unmarried by choice and childless by choice, it is too late for them and there are no do-overs. They are realizing that the corporate career is not so fulfilling as they once thought and won't be there holding their hand at death's door. These are the women that are starting to voice their mistakes and warn the younger generation to not chase after careers by forsaking motherhood and the family. It is time the world listens and it is time to start a new revolution, that of returning home.
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Times are SO Bad Now
Times are so bad now, the schools are so bad now, the government is so bad now...
Well - times are not "so bad" just now - they were already BAD many, many years ago when they took GOD out of schools and the government. I guess you have to decide what you personally feel is "bad". It is either your children not being taught about God and excluding Him from their day or it is a long list of things that ends at, "Oh my goodness, they are teaching about gays now, I can't let my kid hear that." It was ok to let them hear that God wasn't real, that He didn't create anything, and all that goes along with humanistic education but now that they are teaching changing families, it is a disgrace.
It is time to realize that it was a disgrace when they took God out! That is more awful than a gay, than a transgender, than gay marriage, and all the other perversions they can come up with. God is more important.
The government decided that killing babies was ok but that's ok because who cares about children, must less having them, these days anyway. That isn't a fight many Christians wanted to have because hey, they were sold on birth control - which commonly kills babies every year since they made their uterus a killing machine.
We have let all these things slip for the past 70 years and what we have today is the generations of children raised by the parents that allowed these horrors. They were caught up in the American "dream" of having a house and all they could fill with it that they put money above family, education and God. What we have left is the result - the "times are so bad NOW" syndrome.
Thank God we have those that will still fight for what is right and try to save this great country but is it too late?
What kind of children will we raise - ones that continue the cycle or ones that break the cycle!! The future is in your hands mother, you can raise that generation that WILL turn the tide, that WILL get back to the truth and holiness!!
Well - times are not "so bad" just now - they were already BAD many, many years ago when they took GOD out of schools and the government. I guess you have to decide what you personally feel is "bad". It is either your children not being taught about God and excluding Him from their day or it is a long list of things that ends at, "Oh my goodness, they are teaching about gays now, I can't let my kid hear that." It was ok to let them hear that God wasn't real, that He didn't create anything, and all that goes along with humanistic education but now that they are teaching changing families, it is a disgrace.
It is time to realize that it was a disgrace when they took God out! That is more awful than a gay, than a transgender, than gay marriage, and all the other perversions they can come up with. God is more important.
The government decided that killing babies was ok but that's ok because who cares about children, must less having them, these days anyway. That isn't a fight many Christians wanted to have because hey, they were sold on birth control - which commonly kills babies every year since they made their uterus a killing machine.
We have let all these things slip for the past 70 years and what we have today is the generations of children raised by the parents that allowed these horrors. They were caught up in the American "dream" of having a house and all they could fill with it that they put money above family, education and God. What we have left is the result - the "times are so bad NOW" syndrome.
Thank God we have those that will still fight for what is right and try to save this great country but is it too late?
Can generation X turn the tide of the boomers and the mothers that left their homes to work and decades of neglect? Can we change that most adults today need psychotherapy and antidepressants because of the neglect of their parents? Can we change the many lives that aren't even sure their own gender because they didn't see the distinction in their homes or those around them? Can we undo any of this!?!?
What kind of children will we raise - ones that continue the cycle or ones that break the cycle!! The future is in your hands mother, you can raise that generation that WILL turn the tide, that WILL get back to the truth and holiness!!
On Women's Rights, Pants, Careers & Abortion
I just completed a study on women's rights AND the history of clothes. You may be asking why study both of those together? Well, because the one begat the other. The women's rights movement brought about the acceptance of women wearing men's clothing; pants. It also brought about bobbed hair, cut short like a man and women doing men's jobs. The push for women's rights in essence was the push to be what its' heroines called "equal" rights with men, when in reality it was to become just like men.
However, becoming like a man or as they say it, "equal" to men, didn't bring ENOUGH satisfaction. They had to be above men and to take the reigns from man, so to speak. Truly the phrase, "she wears the pants in the family," was indicative of women who domineered over their husbands and something so very much desired by the advocates of women's rights. It was never about being equal, it was about being out from under man's headship set up by God.
Notice in Genesis that the curse for Eve was to be under subjection to her husband, he was to have the rule over her. She was also supposed to suffer pain in childbearing. That was woman's punishment for the sin she committed and for the one she got her husband to partake in. Both subjection to a man and pain in childbearing are two of the things that the women's rights movement have successfully freed women from. In essence, they have conquered the curse of God for women and are now relishing in their rebellion.
Women could now do men's jobs and so they decided to dress the part as well by cutting their hair short and putting on men's garments - pants. There was no longer a need to stay home and raise children either because with these 'rights' in place, women also wanted to prevent any obstacle to their new-found womanhood. The birth control pill worked, but only some of the time and they needed something more fail-proof because how dare these children hinder their life and careers and put them back in the chains of the home. They wanted the right to kill a baby in their womb and as you know, they won. Now, women can do what men can do, wear his clothes, look like him by wearing her hair short and cut off the last thing that differenced her from the man - being a mother.
Can I ask you woman, what are we left with now? We live in a culture that is over-sexualized, demoralized and whose children aren't even sure what gender they really are! A society that says that we don't need marriage anymore, we have birth control and abortion, we can just have a good ole' time with anyone we want without consequences; i.e. children. A society where those seeking marriage rights are of the same gender. A society where girls grow up with low self-esteem because they don't have the perfect bodies or looks like all the Hollywood starlets. A society that would rather have pets than children.
Where has "women's rights" brought us? Divorce. Suicide. Bullies. Gender confusion. Atheism. Sin. Yes, it really has brought us far.....far away from the fabric that held this country together - the woman. Just as in the beginning, woman has destroyed what God has set up, but this time, the world has partook of her fruit.
However, becoming like a man or as they say it, "equal" to men, didn't bring ENOUGH satisfaction. They had to be above men and to take the reigns from man, so to speak. Truly the phrase, "she wears the pants in the family," was indicative of women who domineered over their husbands and something so very much desired by the advocates of women's rights. It was never about being equal, it was about being out from under man's headship set up by God.
Genesis 3: 16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
Notice in Genesis that the curse for Eve was to be under subjection to her husband, he was to have the rule over her. She was also supposed to suffer pain in childbearing. That was woman's punishment for the sin she committed and for the one she got her husband to partake in. Both subjection to a man and pain in childbearing are two of the things that the women's rights movement have successfully freed women from. In essence, they have conquered the curse of God for women and are now relishing in their rebellion.
Women could now do men's jobs and so they decided to dress the part as well by cutting their hair short and putting on men's garments - pants. There was no longer a need to stay home and raise children either because with these 'rights' in place, women also wanted to prevent any obstacle to their new-found womanhood. The birth control pill worked, but only some of the time and they needed something more fail-proof because how dare these children hinder their life and careers and put them back in the chains of the home. They wanted the right to kill a baby in their womb and as you know, they won. Now, women can do what men can do, wear his clothes, look like him by wearing her hair short and cut off the last thing that differenced her from the man - being a mother.
Can I ask you woman, what are we left with now? We live in a culture that is over-sexualized, demoralized and whose children aren't even sure what gender they really are! A society that says that we don't need marriage anymore, we have birth control and abortion, we can just have a good ole' time with anyone we want without consequences; i.e. children. A society where those seeking marriage rights are of the same gender. A society where girls grow up with low self-esteem because they don't have the perfect bodies or looks like all the Hollywood starlets. A society that would rather have pets than children.
Where has "women's rights" brought us? Divorce. Suicide. Bullies. Gender confusion. Atheism. Sin. Yes, it really has brought us far.....far away from the fabric that held this country together - the woman. Just as in the beginning, woman has destroyed what God has set up, but this time, the world has partook of her fruit.
God-Called Blessings Now Burdens to the Modern Woman
Has anyone watched this documentary? I saw the trailer and read this article and it makes sense. Here are some quotes from the article:
That really just sums it up huh? What truth! My husband and I were talking tonight about those today that actually seek to be barren. Why not just pray "God please make me barren" "God I don't want these blessings called children, please spare me!"? Instead of begging God to open their womb - the modern woman begs to be barren or finds some way to get the same effect and if one slips through, oh that's ok - we can just kill it now with the state funded abortion procedure.
Then the women that want a lot of kids or actually even just one.......are ridiculed and called names because they are weird! I get it all the time when I tell people I've always wanted at least 5 kids. They look at you like you are some alien from another planet. Most people don't know that I was unable to have children until I sought God with tears and sadness and asked him to open my womb! He did!! The first time after I prayed that we had tried, I conceived! My daughter is a blessing and a miracle from my Lord! I want however many God wants to bless us with and hope there is more.
It is probably a good thing that some women are not reproducing. Take for instance the feminist's. They flaunt their barrenness and say how good they got it without kids. I say, it is probably good they are not making offspring - wouldn't you agree? Less children raised with that mindset the better I guess you could say. However, even raised with that mindset there is hope, this famous feminist's daughter came out years later against her own Mother, you can read about that here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021293/How-mothers-fanatical-feminist-views-tore-apart-daughter-The-Color-Purple-author.html Here are some quotes from her 'testimony':
Notice how she sums it up at the end:
You can also read how a Feminist Pioneer now says traditional family works best here: http://www.christianhomekeeping.com/2009/05/feminist-pioneer-says-traditional.html
Related: The Blessing of Abortion
"..the most important factor is a culture (including Hollywood, the news media and academia) that tells people that children are a burden, rather than a joy; that pushes an ego-driven, live-for-the-moment ethic; a culture that tells us that contentment comes from careers, love, friendship, pets, possessions, travel, personal growth - anything and everything except family and children. It's a culture that can look at Sarah Palin and her beautiful family and ask why she had to have 5 children and why she didn't abort her child with Downs syndrome."
That really just sums it up huh? What truth! My husband and I were talking tonight about those today that actually seek to be barren. Why not just pray "God please make me barren" "God I don't want these blessings called children, please spare me!"? Instead of begging God to open their womb - the modern woman begs to be barren or finds some way to get the same effect and if one slips through, oh that's ok - we can just kill it now with the state funded abortion procedure.
Then the women that want a lot of kids or actually even just one.......are ridiculed and called names because they are weird! I get it all the time when I tell people I've always wanted at least 5 kids. They look at you like you are some alien from another planet. Most people don't know that I was unable to have children until I sought God with tears and sadness and asked him to open my womb! He did!! The first time after I prayed that we had tried, I conceived! My daughter is a blessing and a miracle from my Lord! I want however many God wants to bless us with and hope there is more.
It is probably a good thing that some women are not reproducing. Take for instance the feminist's. They flaunt their barrenness and say how good they got it without kids. I say, it is probably good they are not making offspring - wouldn't you agree? Less children raised with that mindset the better I guess you could say. However, even raised with that mindset there is hope, this famous feminist's daughter came out years later against her own Mother, you can read about that here: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021293/How-mothers-fanatical-feminist-views-tore-apart-daughter-The-Color-Purple-author.html Here are some quotes from her 'testimony':
"Then there is the issue of not having children. Even now, I meet women in their 30s who are ambivalent about having a family. They say things like: 'I'd like a child. If it happens, it happens.' I tell them: 'Go home and get on with it because your window of opportunity is very small.' As I know only too well. Then I meet women in their 40s who are devastated because they spent two decades working on a PhD or becoming a partner in a law firm, and they missed out on having a family. Thanks to the feminist movement, they discounted their biological clocks. They've missed the opportunity and they're bereft. Feminism has betrayed an entire generation of women into childlessness. It is devastating."
Notice how she sums it up at the end:
"I am my own woman and I have discovered what really matters - a happy family."
You can also read how a Feminist Pioneer now says traditional family works best here: http://www.christianhomekeeping.com/2009/05/feminist-pioneer-says-traditional.html
Related: The Blessing of Abortion
God's View On Children
I've lost a lot of readers on the topic of children but then I have had numerous people almost cry on me in gratefulness for what I've said about birth control and children. It has encouraged them to know they weren't the only ones and I'm here to tell you today that even God is on our side!
Ignore those that despise children because God never did and still doesn't. God set them up as divine blessings. One thing as a woman you should desire is for God to bless your womb. See, I don't choose my examples and mirror my life after women today. If I did, I would have never had my womb miraculously opened and the blessing of my dear sweet daughter. I rather choose the women of the Bible, to which God Himself placed as fine examples of Godly women. Women that cried over barren wombs and prayed for more children. Women whose lives were given to their homes, husbands and children. Women that had their mind on the right things, not things of this world and all its riches that will be burned up.
Children are the only thing that you will be given that you can take to Heaven with you. The house, car and all your gadgets won't make it, but your children will if you train them right and live a life before them! So knowing all this - which should a woman of God desire the most?
Let's review God's view on children and see if it fits your view:
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate. Psalm 127:3-5
Society wants to tell you that you will be happy with your quiver empty of them and to be full of self and kill God's blessings with abortifacients. People spend their whole lives searching for happiness and then there is the rest of us who live it each day with God's prescription for happiness, our children or those we have adopted as ours.To the statement that I hear so often about not having children in these "hard" times, notice what God told the Israelites to do in one of their "hardest" times:
Take ye wives, and beget sons and daughters; and take wives for your sons, and give your daughters to husbands, that they may bear sons and daughters; that ye may be increased there, and not diminished. Jeremiah 29:6
God told them to have children! I'm sure some were using man's wisdom at that time saying you shouldn't have children in these hard times, but God commanded them otherwise.
The following quote is from Voddie Bauchman on the dangers of playing God:
Many people who prevent pregnancy today and plan on just “getting back around to it” some other time are in danger of, “tempting the Lord their God.” (Matt 4:7; cf. Deut. 6:16) Getting pregnant is not a guarantee. There are plenty of people out there who cry themselves to sleep at night because they’ve been trying for years and God has not opened the womb. People who put pregnancy off until a “more appropriate time” need to bear this in mind. You don’t know when (or if) you will get pregnant. As such, it is quite presumptuous to put it off until you decide you’re ready. Remember, God is the author of life, and every child is a blessing. Besides, who’s going to fix our ethical, spiritual, economic, and political crisis in the next generation if those of us who know the answer (the gospel) shut it down and stop launching arrows simply because they may require a little financial sacrifice in the short run?
Whose view do you hold?
The Blessing of Abortion
I first heard of this news story from Much More Than Rubies and then read the article here at World Mag.
Katherine Ragsdale, the soon-to-be President of the Episcopal Divinity School, a major seminary near Harvard says that abortion is a blessing. She even goes so far and says that abortion is holy work! Here are some more quotes from the article:
This is what I've been talking about folks - this PERVERTED (twisted) view of children. Instead of accepting the BIBLICAL view where God tells us they are a blessing and happy is the man that has a lot of them and in the New Testament that women should marry, BEAR CHILDREN, and guide the house..........its all twisted to fit the flesh. Forget marriage - just live together. Forget children - just take pills to mimic barrenness or kill them if they somehow get through your pills because ain't no baby going to ruin your plans and then spend your life thinking a career will fulfill you. Surely God understands you can't be burdened down with his blessings - when he gives them to you, just kill them and tell God "no thanks". Don't worry about the house, it can take care of itself and it isn't as fulfilling as filing papers in an office.
Notice how she glorifies 'God's good gift of sexuality', yet wants to leave out the part of what sex was intended for - reproduction. God designed us that way and that was one of his first commands - be fruitful and multiply. satan has twisted it so well to make people think that the things of this life (material), careers and education and the almighty dollar are where its at.
We who have been born again by the Spirit of God know that the only thing that fulfills is Christ. Christ followers don't look for loopholes to fit their lifestyles, they don't live in sin any longer and they don't constantly seek ways to fulfill the lusts of the flesh. These are the ways of the sinner - one who has never been delivered from sin. "Loopholes to Hell" as Pastor put it this past week.
Katherine Ragsdale, the soon-to-be President of the Episcopal Divinity School, a major seminary near Harvard says that abortion is a blessing. She even goes so far and says that abortion is holy work! Here are some more quotes from the article:
"Ragsdale, though, says abortion is a "blessing," and not only in harsh situations but good ones: "When a woman becomes pregnant within a loving, supportive, respectful relationship; has every option open to her; decides she does not wish to bear a child; and has access to a safe, affordable abortion—there is not a tragedy in sight—only blessing. The ability to enjoy God's good gift of sexuality without compromising one's education, life's work, or ability to put to use God's gifts and call is simply blessing."
This is what I've been talking about folks - this PERVERTED (twisted) view of children. Instead of accepting the BIBLICAL view where God tells us they are a blessing and happy is the man that has a lot of them and in the New Testament that women should marry, BEAR CHILDREN, and guide the house..........its all twisted to fit the flesh. Forget marriage - just live together. Forget children - just take pills to mimic barrenness or kill them if they somehow get through your pills because ain't no baby going to ruin your plans and then spend your life thinking a career will fulfill you. Surely God understands you can't be burdened down with his blessings - when he gives them to you, just kill them and tell God "no thanks". Don't worry about the house, it can take care of itself and it isn't as fulfilling as filing papers in an office.
Notice how she glorifies 'God's good gift of sexuality', yet wants to leave out the part of what sex was intended for - reproduction. God designed us that way and that was one of his first commands - be fruitful and multiply. satan has twisted it so well to make people think that the things of this life (material), careers and education and the almighty dollar are where its at.
We who have been born again by the Spirit of God know that the only thing that fulfills is Christ. Christ followers don't look for loopholes to fit their lifestyles, they don't live in sin any longer and they don't constantly seek ways to fulfill the lusts of the flesh. These are the ways of the sinner - one who has never been delivered from sin. "Loopholes to Hell" as Pastor put it this past week.
Our Personal Convictions; Part 1
I'm supplying this information to back up with evidence what we believe about the issue. The intent is meant to show the "why" we believe what we do. We hold life sacred, in case you haven't noticed, this is a Christian website!
My husband and I have certain personal convictions that we don't force on anyone else but are things we got from the Holy Spirit leading and guiding us over the years. I'm not entirely sure where my church stands on these issues as I have never heard them addressed in a service but maybe they have been, I don't know? Either way, we practice these things and hold them to be true. With that said......I hope to make this as plain as possible so we don't have to go over this every time I mention these things on this blog and have people jump to conclusions and categorize us into their little box lol.
Issue #1 Birth Control
We are against Birth Control pills. I think they are a device of abortion. Medical Science has shown that they probably do not prevent a pregnancy but rather STOP one from continuing on by not allowing the already conceived embryo to implant on the uterine wall. (60% of women have silent abortions with the pill in a given month! - how many babies do you think you have killed? Will you find out when you stand before God and tell him you didn't know those pills killed those children!?) I've done my research and even without the research......I have no doubts that God guided us against these. This also includes other forms such as IUD's, etc. DO YOUR RESEARCH PEOPLE! It's lack of knowledge that is the enemy here.
The American Society of Reproductive Medicine confirms that the pill causes abortions:
http://www.epm.org/artman2/publish/prolife_birth_control_pill/ASRM_Confirms_Pill_Causes_Abortion.shtml
Here is a free pdf of the book "Does the Birth Control Pill Cause Abortion" and shows the medical science:
http://www.epm.org/media-files/pdf/bcpill.pdf
I highly recommend this one:
http://www.wayoflife.org/otimothy/tl110003.htm
Another great one that lists several other sources at the end:
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/edn-bcpill.html
Don't believe me, listen to the doctors:
http://www.epm.org/artman2/publish/prolife_birth_control_pill/The_Growing_Debate_About_the_Abortifacient_Effect_of_the_Birth_Control_Pill_and_the_Principle_of_the_Double_Effect.shtml
Not a big enough doctor for you? How about the Clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology at George Washington University Medical Center?
http://www.epm.org/artman2/publish/prolife_birth_control_pill/Birth_Control_Pill_Abortifacient_and_Contraceptive.shtml
I don't want to take the chance that I murdered an already conceived embryo. That is not an area I want to be near, rather I would be far away from it. Can you imagine standing before God seeing all your children that you killed? I can't bear the thought that I had the control over the situation and actually took the pill that killed them.
What about other types of birth control? Yes, we believe you should not have children if it isn't in God's timing. I believe you should seek God's direction for your life. If you are just having babies without using the wisdom of God and then making other people pay for it (welfare) then how can you say you are right before God? Why would God approve of you living off the government, i.e. other people's money? If it is OF GOD, then he will supply ALL your needs.
So what type of birth control do we believe in. You can find them listed here, scroll to the bottom for those. You may say, well I can't get pregnant because of this and this. For starters, we have been married for almost 9 years and have 1 child. HELLO! The other safe methods do work folks lol. ; ) If you have something wrong in your body and medically you shouldn't get pregnant, first off pray......God will guide his children. Then you might have to get sterilized(depending on the severity of the situation) or stop having intercourse for a time (only when both parties are in agreement according to the Bible). But you can't say birth control pills would prevent your pregnancy and it isn't a valid argument to use them.
What about a woman who is on a medication and can not get pregnant during that time? Well, do you know how many babies are born even while a woman is taking birth control? Some babies make it through the pills, so you still have a chance on the pill. The approved methods that I linked to above, if you combine several of those at once, you have a better chance of not conceiving and staying safe, then with the pill! I for a time was on medication and I was advised to not get pregnant and be on birth control. However, I did not go on birth control, I prayed and believed God and kept doing what we have been doing and all was ok!
WHEW! That's a lot to swallow huh? It's a lot for me to write it but I figured its no big secret and you may have personal convictions that me and my husband don't share but I still love you, so hope you return the favor!
BOTTOM LINE: Ask yourself this question and really think about it:
Would God approve of a pill that has a significant chance of killing an already conceived embryo/fetus?
Related Posts:
Inventor of Birth Control Pills Now Calls it a Catastrophe
A Woman's Role
Since we are on the topic of Abortion........
A quote from Obama:
My Bible tells me what God thinks about children (see my post about that HERE) and I'm BLESSED to have them!!!!!! CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING!!
Psalm 127:3
Not only are children a heritage of the Lord but they are esteemed highly by God:
Psalm 127:4-5
I can't wait to see my pregnancy test read positive for a baby! I long for this, God has designed women for this very PURPOSE and I gladly assume my role as to "bear children" and guide my house! You don't have to ask what God's will is for you as a woman, he has already told us what it is in His WORD:
1 Timothy 5:14
A woman shouldn't have to be "PUNISHED with a baby"
My Bible tells me what God thinks about children (see my post about that HERE) and I'm BLESSED to have them!!!!!! CHILDREN ARE A BLESSING!!
Psalm 127:3
Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward
Not only are children a heritage of the Lord but they are esteemed highly by God:
Psalm 127:4-5
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them.....
I can't wait to see my pregnancy test read positive for a baby! I long for this, God has designed women for this very PURPOSE and I gladly assume my role as to "bear children" and guide my house! You don't have to ask what God's will is for you as a woman, he has already told us what it is in His WORD:
1 Timothy 5:14
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
Clearing Things Up
You would think people would read my sidebar where it states I don't post for debates and I don't approve comments as such. Yet, you always have those who want to stir up whatever they can.....sigh. Anyhoo....to CLEAR up what others may have took to mean something else let me make myself clear on the bearing children issue. Since I have received many comments from both sides and accusations, of which were grounded on them not reading the ENTIRE post or other posts about the same topic......let's set my stance straight here:
I do not take birth control pills.
I personally, don't take birth control and believe its wrong especially when taken with the motive of "I don't care what God wants, I'm not having kids" attitude. Take that up with him, but as for us, we don't take the actual pills because of research that shows it can kill an actual pregnancy and you won't even know it. I don't want to risk killing a fertilized egg and I don't care how you think they are safe.......I don't even want to get near the gray area!
Next, I also do not stand with those who let the babies come whenever. God has a plan, and wants us to use wisdom and do things according to HIS will. You should seek God in all things.
Also if the mother would die or is medically unable to bear a pregnancy, then HELLO STUPID......you should not try for one. There are methods that do not have chances of killing already fertilized eggs that you can use to prevent pregnancy in these situations and when it isn't God's timing. Those methods, I agree with.....I don't think we really need to go into detail about that.
I have prayed over the years to have children when it is God's will and ONLY when it is his will. Our first child was purely at a time when God opened my womb! I was sterile and unable to have children but after praying, God blessed and my miracle baby was born! HALLELUJAH!
Of course when I say God's will, I'm talking about the timing.....it is his will for women to bear children but I also want to do it in HIS timing, when it is right.
So there you have it.....and no I didn't publish the comments and most of the time I don't even finish reading them if the first few words are debate-style. Just stating where I stand, so there is no confusion.
I do not take birth control pills.
I personally, don't take birth control and believe its wrong especially when taken with the motive of "I don't care what God wants, I'm not having kids" attitude. Take that up with him, but as for us, we don't take the actual pills because of research that shows it can kill an actual pregnancy and you won't even know it. I don't want to risk killing a fertilized egg and I don't care how you think they are safe.......I don't even want to get near the gray area!
Next, I also do not stand with those who let the babies come whenever. God has a plan, and wants us to use wisdom and do things according to HIS will. You should seek God in all things.
Also if the mother would die or is medically unable to bear a pregnancy, then HELLO STUPID......you should not try for one. There are methods that do not have chances of killing already fertilized eggs that you can use to prevent pregnancy in these situations and when it isn't God's timing. Those methods, I agree with.....I don't think we really need to go into detail about that.
I have prayed over the years to have children when it is God's will and ONLY when it is his will. Our first child was purely at a time when God opened my womb! I was sterile and unable to have children but after praying, God blessed and my miracle baby was born! HALLELUJAH!
Of course when I say God's will, I'm talking about the timing.....it is his will for women to bear children but I also want to do it in HIS timing, when it is right.
So there you have it.....and no I didn't publish the comments and most of the time I don't even finish reading them if the first few words are debate-style. Just stating where I stand, so there is no confusion.
Pro-Life vs. Pro-Death
What a coincidence! A few hours after I posted my last post concerning bearing children, I get a call from a lady that is doing a political poll. She asked me if I was "Pro-Choice" or "Pro-Life". What she should really say is am I Pro-Life or Pro-Death! Come on! Either you let the baby live or you kill it.....it's really that simple!
My husband saw a bumper sticker a few months ago and even to this day we haven't forgot it. Here is what it said:
What a truth that is! The whole stance on pro-abortionists is that it isn't a living thing yet, that just don't jive with God. Abortion is still MURDER, no matter how pretty you want to paint the picture.
If you didn't want a baby, if it's going to mess up your life then you know what!? KEEP YOUR PANTIES ON GIRLFRIEND!
My husband saw a bumper sticker a few months ago and even to this day we haven't forgot it. Here is what it said:
If it isn't a baby, then you aren't pregnant!
What a truth that is! The whole stance on pro-abortionists is that it isn't a living thing yet, that just don't jive with God. Abortion is still MURDER, no matter how pretty you want to paint the picture.
If you didn't want a baby, if it's going to mess up your life then you know what!? KEEP YOUR PANTIES ON GIRLFRIEND!
Various thoughts on a Woman's role
The Bible commands us as women to be Keepers at Home:
Titus 2:5
Would you say that a woman who is never home, always about and that lets her home go would be a Keeper at home? Probably not! As women, much of time is to be spent AT HOME! God didn't call us to be out and about all day every day and let our home look like a pig pen and our children be strung from place to place either!
A woman's life calling is at her HOME!! Let's took a look at the priorities here:
Everything else is AFTER you have taken care of the very best. If you let others swallow up the time for the "very best" then you have let the good become the enemy of the very best as the quote goes! In doing other "good" things, you have forsook the VERY BEST......God, your family and your home.
Have you been so busy for the Kingdom that you don't have time for the King?? Let's step back and evaluate what God really wants in a woman here! If you are NOT putting God first and then NOT putting your family and home over others, then your priorities are in the wrong place.
What did Paul said that the younger women are supposed to do? For starters, marriage......then bearing children and then guiding the house!
1 Timothy 5:14
What about the children nazi's? LOL The ones who want to make you feel bad because you want to do what God's word says and bear children? Well, what Biblical proof do they have and why are they fighting the scripture? The Bible says we, as younger women are to MARRY....BEAR CHILDREN and GUIDE THE HOUSE; Period! There wasn't a clause in there, saying if you want to. If we say a woman must stay home, we must also include the rest of the verse in that she must marry and bear children. That is what a woman was designed for! We were designed to be mothers and wives.......not diva's and abortionists!
There is a movement going on right now to "save the planet" from waste and the idea behind it is to stop having children. The women say that if you have children you are contributing to the waste of the Earth. HOGWASH! Actually I'm glad these type of women will not be producing any offspring........lol. We don't need others trained with that mindset!
However, as Christians, let's start following the Bible! Do you let your selfishness stop you from doing what God said? "It just isn't convenient for me to have a child" or "I don't have time for children." That's like a slap in God's face! You are basically saying "God, I don't want to be what you designed me to be as a women. I want to do my own thing and I make the decisions here".
I'm so sick of hearing people talk bad about children and how much they don't want them! Enough already! God said in his word that children are a blessing from HIM! You mean you don't want God's blessing?? There's another slap in God's face. Let's look at what God has to say about children:
Psalm 127:3
Not only are children a heritage of the Lord but they are esteemed highly by God:
Psalm 127:4-5
WOW! WHODUTHUNKIT? People that have a lot of children are HAPPY God says! He gave us children as a blessing and to make us happy. They are a gift from God!
So the next time you hear someone telling you how they are glad they don't have kids......just tell them you don't view the blessings of God as they do! ;)
*If you are barren and unable to have children, then you can't and I'm not talking about you. However if you defiantly push aside your role, well that's between you and God, but if you are going to say you MUST be a keeper at home, you also must agree with the rest of the verse! I would hate to get Heaven and find out that God had many blessings for me but my own selfishness didn't allow them to come to being. Oh would that others would count what God counts a blessing.......a BLESSING! If you don't want your blessings, give them to someone who does, don't murder them!
I also am not against birth control, as long as it does not kill an actual pregnancy! We are to be wise, in that we don't have children when we can't afford to take care of them and we want to do it when it is God's will. I personally don't use birth control pills because of my personal beliefs about them, but I don't condemn others who use them because of various reasons. I think it comes down to your motive as to why you are using them.
Titus 2:5
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Would you say that a woman who is never home, always about and that lets her home go would be a Keeper at home? Probably not! As women, much of time is to be spent AT HOME! God didn't call us to be out and about all day every day and let our home look like a pig pen and our children be strung from place to place either!
A woman's life calling is at her HOME!! Let's took a look at the priorities here:
- God
- Family (husband and children)
- Keeping the Home
Everything else is AFTER you have taken care of the very best. If you let others swallow up the time for the "very best" then you have let the good become the enemy of the very best as the quote goes! In doing other "good" things, you have forsook the VERY BEST......God, your family and your home.
Have you been so busy for the Kingdom that you don't have time for the King?? Let's step back and evaluate what God really wants in a woman here! If you are NOT putting God first and then NOT putting your family and home over others, then your priorities are in the wrong place.
What did Paul said that the younger women are supposed to do? For starters, marriage......then bearing children and then guiding the house!
1 Timothy 5:14
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.
What about the children nazi's? LOL The ones who want to make you feel bad because you want to do what God's word says and bear children? Well, what Biblical proof do they have and why are they fighting the scripture? The Bible says we, as younger women are to MARRY....BEAR CHILDREN and GUIDE THE HOUSE; Period! There wasn't a clause in there, saying if you want to. If we say a woman must stay home, we must also include the rest of the verse in that she must marry and bear children. That is what a woman was designed for! We were designed to be mothers and wives.......not diva's and abortionists!
There is a movement going on right now to "save the planet" from waste and the idea behind it is to stop having children. The women say that if you have children you are contributing to the waste of the Earth. HOGWASH! Actually I'm glad these type of women will not be producing any offspring........lol. We don't need others trained with that mindset!
However, as Christians, let's start following the Bible! Do you let your selfishness stop you from doing what God said? "It just isn't convenient for me to have a child" or "I don't have time for children." That's like a slap in God's face! You are basically saying "God, I don't want to be what you designed me to be as a women. I want to do my own thing and I make the decisions here".
I'm so sick of hearing people talk bad about children and how much they don't want them! Enough already! God said in his word that children are a blessing from HIM! You mean you don't want God's blessing?? There's another slap in God's face. Let's look at what God has to say about children:
Psalm 127:3
Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward
Not only are children a heritage of the Lord but they are esteemed highly by God:
Psalm 127:4-5
As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.
Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them.....
WOW! WHODUTHUNKIT? People that have a lot of children are HAPPY God says! He gave us children as a blessing and to make us happy. They are a gift from God!
So the next time you hear someone telling you how they are glad they don't have kids......just tell them you don't view the blessings of God as they do! ;)
*If you are barren and unable to have children, then you can't and I'm not talking about you. However if you defiantly push aside your role, well that's between you and God, but if you are going to say you MUST be a keeper at home, you also must agree with the rest of the verse! I would hate to get Heaven and find out that God had many blessings for me but my own selfishness didn't allow them to come to being. Oh would that others would count what God counts a blessing.......a BLESSING! If you don't want your blessings, give them to someone who does, don't murder them!
I also am not against birth control, as long as it does not kill an actual pregnancy! We are to be wise, in that we don't have children when we can't afford to take care of them and we want to do it when it is God's will. I personally don't use birth control pills because of my personal beliefs about them, but I don't condemn others who use them because of various reasons. I think it comes down to your motive as to why you are using them.
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